We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition...
- On worries! - On worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
(Welcome)
Comedian Ahn Il Gwon!
Hello.
- Kim Soy. - Hello.
She's the original baseball queen.
- Gong Seo Young. - Hello.
- Singer Eui Jin. - Hello.
Hello, I'm Eui Jin.
Saebom of NATURE!
(Saebom of Nature)
(She's pretty.)
Soy, you still look the same.
- Thank you. - So many years have passed,
- but you still look the same. - Right.
- That's not true. - It is.
What was the name of the group that you debuted in?
- T.T.Ma. - T.T.Ma.
Didn't you debut 20 years ago?
We were the end of the century girl group.
- End of the century? - End of the century?
There's a photo.
That was 20 years ago.
Where are you?
I don't know either. Where am I?
Oh, there I am. I have the antenna hair.
Back then, that hairstyle was a trend.
Seo Young is the original queen of baseball,
but she's from a girl group as well.
- It's called Cleo. - Right.
I wonder if you guys remember.
- Cleo. - Right.
I joined the group a bit late.
We debuted at the end of the century too.
- Right. - Because of that,
when we appeared on TV at the beginning of our debut,
they wanted us to dance since we were a girl group.
But to be honest, I left the group because I couldn't dance.
You were a part of the group, but you couldn't dance?
- I... - She left because of that,
but they had kept asking her to dance.
I begged them not to ask me.
Then dance for the last time on this show.
No, thanks.
Don't do that. Don't.
Eui Jin and Saebom.
Have you ever heard of these two groups?
I have a brother who is quite older than me.
- I've kind of heard of them before. - "Kind of"?
- "Kind of". - But I was a fan...
of Kim Hyun Jung back then.
- Right. - So... I'm sorry.
- Okay. - I'm sorry.
(They feel bitter.)
You don't have to be sorry.
(He's cute.)
- Il Gwon, it's been a long time. - It has.
A long time ago on "Gag Concert", he imitated...
- Song Dae Kwan. - Right.
(He showed a great mimicry.)
(He also mimicked Lee Jung Sup.)
- Show us. - Right.
- It's been too long. - I'll mimic a fellow comedian.
Are we supposed to guess who it is?
I'm sure you'll know immediately.
- Will we? - Would you like to guess then?
(They're curious.)
If you want to pass the civil servant exam...
(They recognize who it is right away.)
I found out right away.
Who is it?
- Seo Kyung Suk. - I see.
NATURE released their new song. Let's hear it.
Okay.
(Getting their hopes up)
("I'm So Pretty" by NATURE)
(She dances vivaciously.)
(She dominates the stage alone.)
(I'm so pretty)
(You can't take your eyes off of me)
(I'm pretty too.)
(Wow)
(Saebom gave a lovely performance.)
You're very good!
- She's really good at dancing. - She is.
I think idols from the 21st century are different. Totally.
We have three worries today.
Show us the keywords, please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"Baby, Baby".
"Are All Korean Men Bad?"
- "The Terrifying Smiling Angel". - "The Terrifying Smiling Angel".
"Baby, Baby".
Hello.
I'm a girl in middle school who just wants to live a normal life.
I'm sure many sisters write to you...
about worries they have while fighting.
I have a 27-year-old sister...
who is 12 years older than me.
"Goodness, my baby. Give me a kiss."
"I don't want to! And I'm not a baby."
"You still look like a five-year-old in my eyes."
"Come here, my baby."
- "How cute!" - She's 15.
It happens outside as well.
"Goodness, my pretty girl."
"Please! Just be quiet!"
"What's so bad about my calling you pretty?"
"Look at this cute bottom. You're so cute."
She even touches my bottom when I'm all grown up now.
I got mad and yelled at her.
I tried everything I could do to stop her.
"I'm in middle school now. Can't you stop it already?"
"I know, but you will feel like a baby in my eyes forever."
"Oh, my baby. You're so adorable."
I don't want to be kissed or treated like a baby anymore.
Please stop my sister. That's the end of the story.
(Please stop my sister.)
Actually, I think I know how she must feel.
Since her sister is 12 years older than her,
- she must've helped to raise her. - That's right.
- That's right. - She must adore her little sister.
My younger sister is in her early 40s,
but I still call her "Baby".
When she got married and had her first baby,
I was so surprised.
I know that it's normal,
but I was shocked. When she got pregnant again, I thought,
- "Is she still doing it?" - What?
- What are you talking about? - It's normal for a couple...
- That's ridiculous. - to have babies.
Let me explain.
She's still like a baby to you, but she got a boyfriend,
married him,
- and had a baby with him. - Exactly.
I understand that it could feel weird to you.
- Besides... - But that was...
It was total nonsense.
(Am I the only one who is surprised?)
I don't have any younger sibling,
but I became close to my younger cousin recently.
He's an active singer. His stage name is Paul Kim.
- Paul Kim? - Yes.
- Is Paul Kim your little brother? - He's my cousin.
- "Every Day, Every Moment"? - Yes, he's the singer of the song.
Can you get me his autograph?
- Shall I? - Yes, please.
Anyway, since he made his debut,
I've been worried if anyone gives him a hard time,
or if he eats well.
- So I text him very often. - Of course.
You feel that way even though he's your cousin.
That's right. So...
I fully understand the elder sister...
- in this story. - I can see that.
Our guest is worried because she's...
still treated like a baby when she's in middle school now.
Let's bring her out now.
Please come out.
(Who hates being treated like a baby by her elder sister?)
Eui Jin.
(Kim Min Kyung)
Hold her hand.
(She's coming up onto the stage.)
Welcome.
She seems taller than me.
- Sit down, please. - She's tall for her age.
I was so surprised when she stood next to me.
- I shouldn't have stood up. - I was hunching over like this.
(She really is very tall.)
Do you hate that much being treated like a baby...
by your sister?
Since I'm in eighth grade now,
I consider myself to be all grown up.
But my sister still treats me...
like a five-year-old child.
Since I formed my identity at the age of seven,
I've been hating it.
- Since you were 7? - At the age of 7,
- she formed her identity. - That's right.
She always calls me "Baby" and hugs me.
She also pats me on my bottom even outside home.
She pats me on my bottom...
- in front of other people. - I see.
- But you look so cute. - She's cute.
- She's so cute, right? - Yes.
You're so cute.
- I bet you look even cuter to her. - Exactly.
You may be right.
But we have a 10cm difference in height.
- Is your sister that tall? - I'm taller than her.
- I'm 167cm tall. - You're very tall.
And my sister is 156cm tall.
She must be cute.
Since she's smaller than me,
she looks up at me...
while calling me "Baby", which is ridiculous.
It leaves me speechless.
That doesn't have anything to do with the height.
- Moms look up at their sons... - That's right.
saying, "Be careful with cars."
(Like this)
Is there anything else she does...
that you hate so much?
She used to call me "Baby" just as we write the word.
- But she took it to the next level. - I see.
Now she calls me "Baby".
- She exaggerates the pronunciation. - "Baby".
- She exaggerates the pronunciation? - I see.
- How do you tell the difference? - "Baby".
- It's hard to say it that way. - "Baby".
- "My baby". - "My baby".
- "My baby". - I feel like...
she's my younger sister.
She carries a bag that even elementary school students...
- would not carry around. - How does it look?
Do you know the Minions?
(It's an animation character bag.)
- She carries a character bag. - It's an animation character bag.
And she wears...
pink sweatshirt and pants.
I see that she dressed the way you described.
She's wearing the same clothes...
and the same bag right now. She also plays a character collecting game.
- She wears a bracelet for the game. - Right. I see.
When I see her walking around wearing those three items,
I'm so embarrassed.
(She feels so embarrassed.)
I can see how you feel.
An idea suddenly popped into my head.
How about you act like a baby to make her cringe?
When your sister calls you "Baby",
you imitate a baby cooing.
- You move like a baby too. - She likes it when I act like that.
Is that so?
- Her sister likes it. - She's not easy to deal with.
There's someone who is most likely her sister...
sitting over there.
Let's meet her sister. Hello.
Hello.
(Who feels like her younger sister is still a baby?)
Hello.
- Could you come up on the stage, - That'd be great.
and show us how you pat your sister?
Stand up, please.
Come closer to your sister.
Oh, my. She's so tall.
- Min Kyung is tall. - She's really tall.
- She's tall. - I see what she meant now.
How do you usually pat your sister?
How do you express your affection to her?
Oh, my baby.
(She pats Min Kyung on her behind without hesitating.)
She's doing it again.
How adorable.
(She hates it.)
Give your sister a kiss, Min Kyung.
Why don't you give me a kiss? Give me a kiss.
Stop it.
Her eyes are filled with love while looking at her little sister.
- She's so cute. - You adore her that much?
She's so cute from the head to toe.
Isn't she cute?
- She is cute, but... - I see.
(Thank you for showing us how you usually act.)
Did your sister dress up like that for the show,
- or does she always dress that way? - The latter.
- She always dresses like that. - She does?
- Does she... - It's like some sort of uniform.
- She always wears them? - I see.
You don't have several pairs of the same clothes, do you?
- These are the only ones I have. - Right.
I wash them with my hands.
She washes them at night, so she can wear them the next day.
She repeats it every single day.
(I don't understand. Why does she like that so much?)
So when you walk around outside with her,
it makes you feel uncomfortable, right?
Yes. I don't usually go out with her.
- She doesn't even go out with her. - But I run into her sometimes.
When I run into her,
I get flustered first.
"Why is she dressed like that?"
Then she walks towards me,
and I think of running away from her.
I want to avoid her.
I just walk past by her,
and walk away from her quickly.
But she runs to me...
calling me "Baby".
How do you feel when your sister runs away from you?
I find her even cuter when she runs away from me.
- She's insane. - It makes me want to...
go to her and say hi even more.
She's the complete opposite to me.
When I was a little child, I always had a runny nose.
My elder sisters told me not to pretend I know them.
So I went another way.
Oh, your sisters hated it.
I walked away while sniffling.
(Giggling)
Your younger sister whom you love so much...
says she hates it when you call her "Baby".
What do you think about it?
She still looks like a baby in my eyes.
And I can't help it.
I can't help feeling this way because when she was a baby,
I helped my mom wash her diapers and many other things...
to look after her.
She's like my own child.
That's how I feel about her.
When she was in sixth grade,
I patted her on her butt just as I had always done...
and said, "How adorable. I love you."
She said, "Hey, this is considered as sexual harassment."
So I stopped doing it for a while.
However, after thinking about what she said for a few days,
I find it so cute...
- that she had a thought like that. - You found it cute?
Whatever she does, you find it cute.
Have you never hated your sister?
Not even once?
In downtown, there is...
a pretty cafe that's good to go to take pictures.
I've been asking her to go there with me...
since February.
- She went there with her friends. - Did she?
- But she never went there with me. - She must've been disappointed.
- You must've been disappointed. - Yes, I was.
I once drank coffee during my exam period.
She saw me drinking it and got surprised.
- Because you drank coffee? - She said, "My baby, do you..."
"drink coffee as well?"
I mean, all my friends drink coffee.
I thought she would tease me again...
if we went there, and I drank coffee. So I didn't go with her.
If you have a boyfriend,
you can treat your boyfriend like that.
Right. I show affection to my boyfriend the same way.
I pat him on the buttocks too.
I hug him while walking around with him.
Your boyfriend isn't 12 years younger than you, right?
That'd be illegal.
- That would be illegal. - Oh, right.
She's the elder sister, she acts so cute,
whereas her younger sister acts more mature.
I am the wise one in my family.
(She said it by herself.)
- She's so cute. - When she and my mom have worries,
I give them a solution.
I'm like King Solomon.
One day, my sister asked me...
what I would do if my boyfriend suddenly...
stopped calling me.
So I told her to stop calling him too. An eye for an eye.
A stop-loss order for a stop-loss order.
Have you been trading stocks?
- It's a stock trading term. - That's right. A stop-loss order.
A stop-loss order? All right.
Then do you consult with your sister...
when you have worries?
Even if I have worries, I don't tell her.
- Why? - She doesn't listen to me.
- What? Why? - She doesn't take it seriously.
It's hard to understand that.
- I think it's conflicting, right? - Yes.
She usually plays with her phone, talks to her boyfriend on the phone,
and plays games.
When she gets bored,
she looks for me calling me "Baby". Only when she's bored,
and she has nothing else to do.
Only when she needs you?
"When she has nothing else to do".
So she has fun with her phone and watches TV. And then she says,
"Oh, I'm bored. My baby."
Exactly. That's what she does.
- Is that what you're saying? - That's right.
Then how do you relieve stress?
I often go to a karaoke room with my friends. I love singing.
- You sing? - It relieves my stress.
(Sing for us.)
- Should I sing? - Yes.
Start.
(Yeong Ja helps out.)
(Her expression changes instantly.)
(Unexpectedly, she sings a sad ballad.)
She's good.
(Her pure voice fills the studio.)
She's very good.
(She even pulls off the high notes.)
- Oh, my. - She's very good.
(Surprised)
She's very good.
(Proud)
(She puts her heart into the song.)
- Thank you. - That was nice.
- You're so good. - Your voice is...
very pure.
(Pure voice)
She's still young and innocent.
"Should I sing? I'm not good." But as soon as Yeong Ja said, "Start"...
(She started singing right away.)
As soon as Yeong Ja said, "Start"...
Her sister looked...
so proud...
watching her sing.
If you adore your little sister so much,
why do you not pay attention when she talks about something serious?
Right. Why don't you pay attention?
You're paying attention right now. You must be bored.
(You must be bored.)
- Why do you not pay attention? - In my opinion,
she's still so young.
So I think all her problems will eventually pass.
Their father is here today.
What does he think of his daughter's worry?
I don't think...
it's a worry.
- Oh, my. - It's not a serious worry.
I came all the way from Yeonggwang.
I can't just go back like this. I run a small rice cake shop,
so I brought some rice cakes.
Please try.
- Suddenly? - Suddenly?
Suddenly rice cakes?
Exactly.
Suddenly rice cakes.
This is ramie leaf rice cake from Yeonggwang.
Take one and pass it on.
- You didn't get one? - Please pass it on.
- It tastes so good. - Here are three more.
Please pass these to the back.
- Thank you. - Everyone.
Enjoy.
This is why I wanted to be on "Hello".
- Exactly. - We get food.
It tastes so refreshing. It tastes really good.
What was the worry again?
(Let me see.)
What was it?
How can you forget it?
(How can you forget it?)
(The situation is reversed.)
We really enjoyed the rice cakes.
But why do you think your first daughter...
treats her little sister like a baby?
Actually, this is my second marriage.
Yes.
Min Ju was born during my first marriage,
and Min Kyung during my current marriage.
My guess is,
because my wife and I paid more attention to Min Kyung,
Min Ju was jealous of her sister.
I don't think so.
I didn't treat my sister that way because I was jealous.
I'm not that generous a person.
I've been treating her...
the way I want to.
Have you ever felt lonely...
in your family?
I feel like Mom, Dad, and my sister...
have their places in the family.
I'm 27 years old now.
At my age, everyone can feel a bit lost.
Because of that, I've felt like I'm alone.
- I understand. - Recently,
we had a bit of a quarrel.
- You and your first daughter? - Yes.
She works part-time at my rice cake shop.
She helps out.
Yes. I tell her to come by 9:30am,
but she doesn't show up until 11am to noon.
In a week,
she works 2 days and takes 5 days off.
That's the attitude she lives with.
I explained my position to him.
I have to meet some people too.
I told him I want to take weekends off.
He said I could take some days off, but if I want to take weekends off,
that means I don't want to help out in the first place.
So recently, I told him...
I wanted to move to another city...
and earn money there.
But he got angry that I made that decision on my own.
He only saw the negative side of my decision.
He thought I wanted to get away from home.
The communication isn't going well.
You two look so uncomfortable around each other.
I can see the distance between them.
I can taste his philosophy in his rice cakes.
Is it rice cakes again?
(All of a sudden, it's rice cakes again.)
It keeps going back to rice cakes.
His rice cakes have subdued flavors. They're not too sweet or salty.
He's very honest and stubborn. He must insist on...
using healthy ingredients.
On the other hand, his first daughter...
probably wants cheese and cream flavors too.
She wants that from her dad.
- It means you two need to talk. - Right.
(The problem is that their communication is cut off.)
It seems like...
you're a bit stressed out.
I can imagine...
that your cute little sister must comfort you a lot.
Actually,
I have no one else in the family to rely on...
than Min Kyung.
- So... - That's why you adore her so much.
It was when Min Kyung hadn't even started school yet.
I was crying alone, stressed out.
Min Kyung came to me,
gave me her little hand, and asked, "Why are you crying?"
"Stop crying." She held my hand.
She did?
So...
even though she was so little, she comforted me a lot.
Imagine how adorable you must have been to her.
- Right. - Do you remember that?
She doesn't.
Since Min Ju remembers that, she thinks of her sister as a baby.
But if you really love your sister...
(If you really love your sister...)
You should stop doing...
what she doesn't like.
If you really love someone, you should want that person to be happy.
(If you really love someone, you want that person to be happy.)
How do you want your sister to change?
Tell her clearly.
First of all, I want you to stop calling me a baby.
Also, please stop nagging me to kiss you.
Lastly,
let's go buy some clothes together.
She wants to go and buy clothes with her sister.
Isn't that nice? She wants to go shopping with her sister.
Before, she didn't even want to go to a cafe with her sister.
Would you like to go shopping with your sister?
Yes, but I don't have time this week.
Let's go next week.
I don't have time this week either.
Exactly.
(They're cute.)
Anyway, your sister asked you to stop doing a few things.
Can you do that?
I'll try to listen...
when she talks about her problems.
I'll try to understand her emotions.
But about kissing...
(But about kissing...)
(It's not over yet?)
If we can meet halfway, can I continue...
until she's 20?
(Until she's 20)
- Until she's 20? - Until she's 20?
You want to kiss her until she's 20?
(You want to kiss me until I'm 20?)
Your sister, who you love so much, doesn't like it.
You should try to be more considerate.
(Be considerate to the person you love.)
Then what if you kiss her less often?
Can you do that?
(How will she react to the suggestion?)
If my sister says she doesn't want it,
I'll try to change.
(I'll try to change.)
(We support your decision.)
- Right. - Say something to your daughters.
Min Kyung is very good at sports.
She is a good student too.
She is good at everything. But my first daughter...
(But my first daughter...)
I want her to act her age.
Sir.
(Yeong Ja wants to add something.)
Your rice cakes taste well-balanced.
But why do you say only good things about your second daughter...
and complain about your first daughter?
- Tell her you love her. - Tell her how much you love her.
Look at your first daughter and tell her you love her.
She's your first daughter.
Tell her you love her.
She's your first daughter.
- Hold her hand. - Hold her hand.
- I love you. - Yes.
- Hold her hand. - I love you.
(They finally...)
(hold hands.)
I love you, Min Ju.
All right.
(I love you, my first daughter.)
It's nice to watch.
All right.
Let's start from Il Gwon.
(Il Gwon thinks it's a worry.)
It's a worry.
Because she feels insecure in the family,
she treats her little sister like a baby...
to relieve her stress.
I went through similar things when I was younger,
and I miss those days now.
I don't think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Time's up.
Let's see how many votes they got.
(The result)
Is it over 100?
(How many are worried about the sisters?)
It's 68.
"Are All Korean Men Bad?"
Can you guess what it's about?
Hello, I married a Korean man six years ago.
I'm from Vietnam.
I'm sorry my Korean isn't very good yet.
- Can you read it the usual way? - Okay.
(Hurt)
We were thinking the same.
I thought I'd be so happy in Korea.
But I regret moving to Korea. A lot.
"Honey, did you get off work early today?"
"No. I quit."
"Why?"
My husband keeps quitting his job.
Oh, no.
However, we have a 6-year-old daughter and a 3-year-old son.
My goodness.
"Our kids want to go to an amusement park. What should we do?"
"Gosh. It's only a waste of money. We'll go some other time."
Whenever I can't afford what my children want,
- I feel very, very upset. - Of course, she's upset.
"Honey, can't you endure it a little bit..."
"for our children's sake?"
"Gosh. I can't keep working there. It hurts my pride."
"Honey, it's not like your pride earns you money."
"Whatever."
He quit his job again...
two months ago.
I'm not sure if I can trust my husband,
and live a good life in Korea. I'm worried.
Please help me resolve the problem.
(You irresponsible husband! Come to your senses.)
Il Gwon, what do you think?
I started to feel frustrated when you started reading it.
Are you the same type of man as her husband?
No. Never.
I'm telling you honestly.
I make sure to support my family even if I have to go hungry.
That's how a man should be.
The Chinese character for "man" has the ones for "mouth", "10",
and "power".
It means that a man has the power to feed 10 people.
However...
(Oh, my.)
(That's a great remark.)
Her husband... I'm sure he has his reasons.
Please come out.
(Who is worried because her husband quits his job too easily?)
(Han Eun Su)
- Please introduce yourself. - Okay.
Hello.
I'm from Vietnam. I moved to Korea to get married six years ago.
I obtained Korean citizenship.
You're a Korean citizen now.
My Korean name is Han Eun Su.
Eun Su.
- Han Eun Su. - Her name is Eun Su.
How easily does your husband quit his job...
to make you send your story to us?
In the past six years of our marriage,
he quit his job 10 times.
- In only six years? - That's serious.
That means he moved to a new job in only a few months.
My husband is a tower crane operator.
A tower crane operator?
You know the crane that's used...
- to build tall buildings. - The very tall one.
- He's right, isn't he? - Yes.
He worked for 3 to 4 months,
and then he took a break for 2 to 4 months.
- He took a break for four months? - Yes.
He took a break until we had no money. He didn't...
try to find a job or work part-time jobs until I said we were broke.
He didn't find a new job until then?
He tried to find a job only when he had no money left.
One day, he came home from work.
He brought all his stuff he had kept at work.
He went into the bedroom and lied down without saying anything.
I asked, "Honey, did you quit your job again?"
He said, "Yes, I did. I won't go back there."
He said he had argued with his work colleague,
and so he wouldn't go back because he was upset.
That's what he told me.
That's all that he said?
By the way, I see that you speak formally to your husband.
I speak formally to him when we talk about...
a serious issue.
- When you have a serious issue? - You speak formally only then.
She usually speaks like this. "Oh, honey. Come on over here."
But she says, "Please stop it."
(I do that unintentionally.)
- She suddenly looks upset. - Is that how you act?
Why does your husband keep quitting his job?
He doesn't have much experience as a tower crane operator.
And he feels that his work colleagues...
- look down on him. - I see.
He quit his job saying it hurt his pride.
Did your husband just become a tower crane operator?
But every job is stressful.
- Not everything can be great. - You're right.
- You should endure it. - That's right.
I mean, he has two children, and he's not so young anymore.
How do you come up with money for the living cost?
I can't get a job yet...
since my children are too young.
- Of course. They're only 3 and 6. - That's right.
They get sick often.
- When they develop stomatitis, - Hand-foot-mouth disease.
- there's no one to look after them. - Of course.
I wish I could get a job.
Actually, I tried to find a part-time job.
But I couldn't find any job that fits my schedule.
- I had no choice but to give up. - You have to look after the kids.
- One time, - Yes?
our credit card bill was too high.
I'm ashamed to say this, but I borrowed money from my elder sister.
How much money did you borrow?
About 1,000 dollars.
From your sister? Oh, gosh.
I borrowed money from her,
but I couldn't tell her the truth.
I said that my husband's salary was delayed.
- I asked her to lend me money. - Right.
I didn't want to make her worry.
I understand.
(Of course, she would be worried.)
I know that you didn't expect any of this when you moved to Korea.
What made you move to Korea back then?
- She didn't come to meet him. - That's right.
You met him when you were studying in Korea, right?
- I was so foolish. - Why?
Because he was my first love...
- He was your first love? - I see.
Was he your first love? Or were you his?
I don't know about him, but he was my first love.
He was your first love.
When I was studying in Korea,
I met my husband.
We broke up when I went back to Vietnam...
because it's too far from here.
And in fact, my mom was against our relationship.
- Why? - It's because...
my husband is much older than me, and..
How much older is he than you?
He's 15 years older than me.
Goodness gracious.
(Her first love is way older than her.)
Your husband doesn't treat you like a baby, right?
(He doesn't do that.)
- How old were you... - "My baby."
After breaking up with him, I met some other men.
- After breaking up with him? - Yes.
She made a move quickly.
(She searched around quickly!)
I didn't meet just 1 man. I met about 3 men.
- I'm glad you did. - Me too.
- You should meet other men... - I didn't feel anything for them.
You didn't feel anything for the three men you met.
Back then, all I cared about was love.
- Of course. - It makes you happy.
(They became a married couple with the power of love.)
(They must've fallen deeply in love.)
Now, let's meet with Eun Su's first love.
- He's 15 years older than her. - The man she loved so madly.
Where is her first love?
Hello. Hello.
(Who is her husband who quits his job too often?)
Did you really quit your job 10 times...
in only six years just as your wife said?
I worked as a tower crane operator for a little longer than two months.
Since I didn't have much work experience,
my work colleagues criticized me...
even when I hadn't done anything wrong.
(It was too much to deal with.)
"Why didn't you do this as I asked?"
We started arguing. When I lose my temper,
I tend to raise my voice.
Then my supervisor said,
"What? You jerk..." Oh, no. I'm sorry.
- It's okay. - You can tell us comfortably.
Our staff will edit swear words.
"What's wrong with him? What did he just say?"
The next day, I went to work.
My supervisor called me right before I left for the day.
He said I would no longer work there after the end of the month.
That's what he told me.
What kind of work did you do before then?
It's true that I changed my career many times.
Since I was in my 20s until now,
I changed my career about 15 times.
I worked at a tool supply company in a distribution market...
And what else?
- for about eight years. - You worked there so long.
He worked there so long.
After that, I ran a snack bar,
worked as a building repair contractor,
had a plastic waste processing job,
- and a meat processing job. - A meat processing job.
Like sirloin.
- Sirloin is delicious. - Yes.
(The meat lover smiles happily.)
Recently, I worked...
- as a taxi driver and a chauffeur. - A taxi driver...
and a chauffeur.
You said you changed your career about 15 times.
- More than 10 times. - Do you usually...
find a new job right away or take a break?
I take a break.
How long is your break?
Before I got married, I took a break for a month at the most.
Before you got married?
- It should be the other way around. - Exactly.
- Before he got married? - Then how long was it after that?
It's reversed.
3 or 4 months at the most.
(He takes no responsibility as the head of his family.)
Weren't you worried when you quit your job...
because you were...
struggling financially?
I was worried about it...
since we have accumulated expenses.
My wife doesn't know the details,
but we have a debt.
(Even their debt mounted up.)
It's not a lot though. We have 20,000 dollars in debt.
That's a lot of money.
- Your wife didn't know... - Why didn't you keep hiding it?
I didn't think... You know there's no one...
who doesn't have a debt these days.
- I don't have any overdue debts. - Some people don't have any debts.
Why would you make all Koreans look like debtors?
I'm sorry, but...
She told us that you borrowed money from her sister as well.
We didn't have enough money to pay our credit card bill.
She said, "Shall I ask my sister if she can lend us some money?"
So I said, "Yes. Ask your sister..."
"if she can lend us some money."
My goodness.
When I reflected upon what I said after some time,
I realized that it scarred my wife.
- Gosh. - If you have a debt,
you should work as hard as you can to make money.
I thought about this for a long time.
I've been meaning to become an air conditioner installer.
It's very hard work.
It's been only a few days,
but I started it.
Are you learning the skills?
Yes, I'm learning.
- At least, he has a job. - Right.
I have a question.
When you quit your jobs, were you urged to resign,
or did you choose to resign in most cases?
(Was he urged to resign, or did he choose to resign?)
- I was urged to resign. - I see.
When you're taking a break after quitting your job,
do you need some time...
to figure out the kind of job that would suit you better?
Or do you want to take time just to get some rest?
I want to...
go on a trip for a week without thinking about anything.
I think that would help to recharge myself.
But my wife won't let me do so.
- Are you saying you made things... - He wants to go on a trip alone?
this messy because she didn't let you go on a trip?
You should work hard if you want to go on a trip.
You want to go on a trip alone...
for about 5 or 6 days when you even have children?
It's just my wish.
You meant traveling without money, right?
(He's selfish.)
When he doesn't go to work, does he do anything at home?
- He doesn't do anything at home. - He doesn't do anything?
He doesn't do anything.
There's no one who does nothing. He must breathe, at least.
- He must eat. - He must have meals.
He only eats and watches TV.
- Or he sleeps. - TV?
Which channel does he usually watch? KBS or another channel?
- I am sure he watches KBS. - Then I will forgive him.
Of course he watches KBS.
All right. He watches TV.
I am sure he helps out with household chores...
when he is not working.
It would be nice if he does that,
but he doesn't know how to use a washing machine.
- Doesn't he know how to use it? - No.
(It's so easy.)
The washing machine is Korean,
but even a foreigner like me can use it.
- But my husband can't. - Why not?
Everything is automatic these days.
- "Normal wash". - You just press the buttons.
You just pour a bit of laundry detergent.
- I think... - You didn't make an effort.
you lied because you didn't want to do the laundry.
(You have no excuse, right?)
Did your wife tell us the truth?
When front-loading washing machines came out for the first time,
I tried to use them a few times before I got married.
I wanted to add more laundry during the cycle,
- but I couldn't open the door. - You can't open the door.
That's when I gave up.
- He gives up very fast. - Seriously.
It's just like the time he fought...
- with his coworker. - It's the same thing.
- He doesn't see things through. - "I give up."
Just as he gave up on learning how to use the washing machine,
- he quits work. - That's right.
I can't help but worry. Since the children are growing up,
he should put some effort into their education.
I do a better job than my husband.
When I help my daughter with her homework,
- I want my husband to join in. - He should do that.
My pronunciation is bad.
Korean is hard, so I don't know the answers.
However, my husband refuses to help.
You know,
he doesn't even read them books.
You should help. She doesn't know Korean very well.
I can explain the situation.
I did read books...
to my eldest daughter.
It's just that I gave up fast...
when I should have continued on.
If my wife reads books to the children,
her pronunciation will improve.
- For goodness' sake. - I had that thought.
It's a lousy excuse.
If I make...
a habit of helping her in every way,
her Korean won't improve.
She will depend on me for everything.
(Flustered)
What did he say?
(What did he say?)
"What did he say?"
It would be better if she doesn't hear that.
He said...
Hold on. Did you say that because you didn't understand...
or because you thought he was spouting nonsense?
Is it the former or the latter?
Let's guess. What was the meaning of "What did he say?"
- "What kind of nonsense was that?" - I didn't understand.
- I didn't understand. - You didn't understand?
Because your Korean will improve...
if you read children's books,
he gave up.
He did it for your sake.
Do you agree? Do you think it's a lie?
- It's half and half. - It's half and half.
- It's half and half. - She is nice.
- She is nice. - She still has love for him.
- She is nice. - She still has love for him. Gosh.
Love is everything.
Could this be the running theme of your behaviors?
You didn't want to make a habit of earning living expenses?
(Could that be the reason?)
"You need to make money later on."
- That's not true. - That's not true, right?
Okay.
Their beautiful children are here as well.
Da Yeon and Seung Yeon, come on out.
- How cute! - They are so cute.
- They are so cute. - They are so cute.
- My goodness, they are so cute. - They are so cute.
How cute!
- The older one is Da Yeon, right? - Who is Da Yeon?
Raise your hand.
- Say hello. - Hello.
(Her smile is really cute.)
Who do you like better, Mom or Dad?
- Mom. - Mom.
- She didn't hesitate at all. - Is your dad...
at home often?
- No, he isn't. - No?
It's not like he goes to work. Where does he go?
Does your dad play with you often?
No, he doesn't.
- No? - He doesn't play with you.
What does your dad do when he is at home?
- He is on the computer. - I see.
When he is on the computer, what does your mom do?
She cleans.
- She cleans. - Her mom cleans.
Children don't lie.
- The way she talks is so cute. - I know.
When she leaves the studio, she might go,
"I did a pretty good job, right?"
My goodness.
She was acting.
- For goodness' sake. - Don't be ridiculous.
Is there anything you want to do with your dad?
I want to play hide-and-seek with Dad.
- Hide-and-seek. - It's so easy to do that.
Hasn't he played the game with you once?
No.
- That's too much. - Sir.
I play hide-and-seek with her every day.
- That's not what she said. - That's not what she said.
It's just that I don't play with them...
- as much as they want. - They are so cute.
Children are full of energy.
You should play with them as much as they want.
That's...
Your son wants the microphone.
He has something to say.
Hello.
(Winking)
- How cute! - He is suddenly acting cute...
in front of the camera.
What's your name?
Your son wants the microphone.
He has something to say.
Hello.
(Winking)
- How cute! - He is suddenly acting cute...
in front of the camera.
What's your name?
How old are you?
(Babbling)
(I am here.)
Play hide-and-seek with them.
He is so cute!
(Dad, what should we do to play?)
Do you have a friend or someone...
you can talk to about these matters?
I don't enjoy talking with friends,
so I keep these matters to myself.
- It must be hard. - You have a sister in Korea.
I don't want to tell my sister.
- It's understandable. - Then she will think badly...
of my husband.
That's right.
- She is nice. - She is very considerate...
- of her husband. - She worries about his image.
Your mom is in Vietnam, right?
- Yes. - Do you call her?
Yes. In my country, rich families have meat...
on the table.
My mom always asks,
"What are you eating today? Is there meat on the table?"
"Are you living well?"
What do you say?
I just say, "There is meat."
"I am living well."
As soon as the call ends, I cry by myself.
I want to tell her the truth, but I can't.
It's understandable.
I insisted on marrying my husband.
- That's right. - I need to take responsibility.
Your husband is the one you can talk to about your worries.
Does he listen to you?
No. When my husband comes home,
I follow him around like a puppy.
You follow him around.
"Honey, today..." I want to tell him everything.
"You are all over the place. Stop moving around so much."
"Let me be by myself."
Why do you not listen to your wife?
(Sighing)
Here is the problem. When we have a conversation...
during mealtime, we have to face each other.
If I do something else,
she says it's not a conversation.
- She is right. - That goes without saying.
- She is right. - That's what a conversation is.
I don't do this when I talk to you. "Why did you do that?"
- During mealtime... - "Why do you keep quitting work?"
"Tell me. Tell me."
That would be absurd.
I think I do a pretty good job...
of having conversations with my wife.
Sir, I understand that you are too tired...
to have conversations when you work outside.
I understand that.
However, you get a lot of rest.
It could be an excuse,
but I don't like...
to explain the same thing...
many times.
I need to explain things until my wife understands,
but I can't do that.
Until she goes, "I can do this by myself,"
she is a lovely woman who has no one to trust but you.
- That's right. - Yes.
You give up so easily.
- Seriously. - You must meet...
your friends often.
I haven't gone to a get-together between friends...
for over a year.
- Why not? - Why not?
My wife checks my phone often.
Sometimes,
my friends call me.
Then she checks the calls.
"Are you going to go? When are you coming back?"
One time,
I became so upset...
that I threw and broke the phone.
(His reaction was over-the-top.)
I am really sorry about that,
but would I have done it if I hadn't been so upset?
That's not it.
(He shouldn't take such an extreme approach.)
His bachelor friends meet regularly, and he joins them.
- His bachelor friends. - Yes.
He always comes home in the morning.
Right. They would do that.
On Children's Day, he had a day off.
But they asked him to meet up.
- On Children's Day? - They hung out on Children's Day?
- Yes. They... - They are bachelors.
His friends are slow-witted.
That's why they are still single.
He was supposed to spend the day with the children.
- It's Children's Day. - But my husband said,
"They are still young. I can play with them later."
My goodness.
And he just left.
- He left? - He left?
He left the house on Children's Day?
(He ended up hanging out with his bachelor friends.)
(It's frustrating.)
Whenever you fight...
(She's getting upset.)
how do you feel?
Sometimes, I want to go back to Vietnam.
I want to take my kids with me.
I want to tell my mom everything.
Just a few days ago, I told my husband this.
And he said I should leave the kids and go alone.
(Go! But leave the kids and go alone.)
(There are some things you shouldn't say.)
He said that.
He told you to just go?
- Yes. - I don't think he meant it.
We had a fight.
And my wife said...
she wanted to go to Vietnam.
I should've stopped myself, but I am short-tempered.
So I...
Why do you keep losing your temper?
(He always makes excuses, gives up, and loses his temper.)
You keep losing your temper.
And that will destroy your life.
- Right. - It's true.
We all try so hard to hide the fact...
that we don't like somebody.
It's not about whether it's fair or not.
Losing your temper, yelling,
and creating an awkward situation...
is a very bad habit.
Of course.
For your wife and children,
you should try to contain your anger.
- Okay. - Okay.
I have a question.
You have a question?
- Tell us. - I want to...
ask everyone here.
In Korea...
Yes?
(Everyone is curious.)
Is it a thing to drink urine to cure disease?
- What? - Or as a preventive method?
To prevent urinary tract diseases.
- Right. - Is there such a thing?
- Do all Koreans... - Do all Koreans do that?
- No. No. Why do that? - Who does that?
- Why? - Why do you ask?
- Why do you ask? - It really shocked me.
That Korean culture shocked me.
That's not Korean culture.
- That's... - My husband said he did that.
- Your husband... - Your husband...
Honestly, my husband and my husband's family...
drink urine morning and night.
(Everyone is terrified.)
(That is not Korean culture.)
(That's unimaginable.)
(It's the home remedy from an unknown source.)
(They are very flustered.)
(I drink it for health.)
They drink it to prevent diseases?
(It's a behavior no one can understand.)
- That's... - It's really hard for me.
I think I've seen it on a show that's about bizarre behaviors.
And did your husband...
say that most Koreans do it?
Yes. He said some Koreans do it.
- Then... - He said there are people.
Does any of you here...
- Does any of you... - She's...
- very confused. - Never.
- Should we take a vote? - Nobody? Really?
What if a lot of people unexpectedly press the button?
(That would be a great twist.)
Let's give it a try.
Let's try it. Really.
Let's do it quietly.
- Do you know anyone who does it? - 1, 2, 3.
Please press the button.
(It's very quiet.)
(It's silent.)
- Nobody. - Nobody?
Out of 200, nobody does it.
He wants to press the button,
but he doesn't have one.
There's nobody.
(So it's not Korean culture.)
Because I drink quite a lot,
my blood pressure is high. When my blood sugar level...
is high, it goes as high as 180.
After I started drinking urine...
I don't work out yet.
But I am maintaining the blood pressure of 130 to 140.
- This is... - Instead of drinking urine,
shouldn't you stop drinking?
- Right. - You should work out.
I need to work out.
I tried several times to...
- You can go around the town. - I sometimes go...
to the gym to try to work out.
(So he doesn't work out.)
- So you don't do it. - No.
These days, I...
What should I say?
- It sounds like you... - My self-esteem is low.
- love giving excuses. - My self-esteem is low.
- You should be more honest. - Are you lethargic?
Yes.
Excuse me for asking, but how old are you?
- I was born in 1972. - Born in 1972.
- He's 48. - You are the same age as me.
I was born in early 1972.
All right. Big brother.
Big brother.
I am no doctor or a health professional of any sort.
But I've done a lot of shows with experts.
So I've heard a few things from them.
That urine therapy is neither scientifically nor medically...
- proven. - Of course.
It actually exposes you...
to various germs.
And it can worsen your health. That's what I heard.
When you drink urine when you're not healthy,
there's a much higher risk of you getting infected.
(If it's for health, shouldn't he change eating and exercising habit?)
She married her first love, but look what happened.
He doesn't work. He doesn't give her money.
He doesn't do house chores.
- Her first love drinks urine. - He doesn't watch the kids.
- On top of that... - He drinks alcohol and urine.
He drinks urine.
(He's the worst.)
It's...
Honestly, I have...
- not much faith in him. - Right.
(He wasn't considerate enough and respect his wife enough.)
Honestly,
I decided to come here...
to change.
- Until now... - Do you have the will?
- My previous behaviors... - That's a good start.
have put my wife, my kids,
and myself in a tough position.
(I will try to change.)
I thought I can't go on like this.
Even if you decide to quit your job,
- you should talk to your wife. - Right.
You have to make every decision with your wife.
Only then your wife will feel respected.
Lastly, if there's something you want to tell him, tell him now.
First of all, I am sorry I made you come all the way here.
My gosh.
She's so good.
It's better that she came here instead of going to Vietnam,
is it not?
(The loneliness and fatigue she's been feeling make her cry.)
It's...
You are older now.
We have two kids.
You need consistent work.
We have to save money.
And...
Honestly, you are the only one I have.
[VIU Ver] E422 Hello Counselor "Baby, Baby" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
Talk to me a lot.
It doesn't matter what it's about.
If something bad happened at work, tell me about it.
- She's such a great wife. - And...
let's drink less.
I still have...
a long life to live, but you...
(He's old.)
(Laughing)
First of all, I really love you.
From now on...
First, I will play with the kids.
I will talk to you about things.
I will take work seriously.
Instead of losing my temper, I will think again.
And I will try to talk more gently. I will try to find a common ground.
I will become that man.
And what about her last request?
(What about drinking urine?)
I will stop drinking it.
I won't drink urine anymore.
You promised.
(Please keep the promise.)
Let's start with Saebom. Is it a worry or not?
Children's childhood never comes back once it passes.
I want you to cherish those moments with them.
You have a lot of reasons and excuses. You tend to give up easily.
When you do that, your lovely wife and children...
might slowly give up on you.
Your wife said she's lost...
a lot of faith in you.
I hope that will get you worked up.
Get worked up at the fact that we all agree with her.
Instead of changing the profession, you should change yourself.
I hope he will get worked up for the last time to do that.
- I believe it's a worry. - Good.
And it's not your fault.
- Of course. - Don't you forget that.
- She's doing a good job. - She is.
When you want to quit,
think of your lovely wife...
and your cute children.
Then your family will become much happier.
Get ready to press the button, everyone.
All right.
Don't press it yet. Don't press it yet.
- Not yet. - They've been waiting for this.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
(Please send us your worries about yourself, family, and friends.)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see how many votes she got.
Let's find out.
(The result)
The highest vote we've ever gotten was 181.
It was really loud.
Will they break the record?
(Will they be able to break the record of 181 votes?)
(Let's see.)
(The record is broken!)
(It becomes the next biggest worry.)
(This can't be.)
Goodness.
This is how serious this is.
- Seriously. - This is the highest votes...
we've received during the past 10 years.
Really?
It's the highest of all.
(183 votes is the highest.)
(This is the biggest worry of the decade.)
(A new record has been set in three years.)
(If you don't keep your word, I'll sign up again.)
"The Terrifying Smiling Angel".
Hello.
Here it is.
I'm a girl in her 20s who's having the time of her life.
(My goodness)
- Can you do it again? - I loved that.
I'm a girl in her 20s.
(Squealing)
I have a best friend of 10 years.
But my friend has deeply fallen in love...
with a man in his 40s who's 16 years older than her.
(That's impossible.)
"Hey, look at my boy. Isn't he so handsome?"
"Hey, he's not a boy. He's a middle-aged man."
"He is my boy!"
- She got mad. - This guy is...
Sung Si Kyung.
(The prince of ballad)
(Startled)
I see. She's a big fan of Sung Si Kyung's.
She watches videos of him all night long.
She follows him to the open filming sites and concerts.
She's totally in love with him.
"What should we have today? Kalguksu?"
"Kalguksu?"
"My baby boy loves kalguksu!"
"Oh, really? I'm having a stomachache right now."
"Really? His condition wasn't so great yesterday either."
(She's always talking about him.)
Whatever I say, she's always talking about him!
I'm sick of it.
"Tomorrow isn't my day off,"
"so why does it say it is?"
"I changed it."
"Let's go to Si Kyung's concert together."
(She didn't even ask for her opinion?)
Now, I'm pretty much forced to go with her.
I'm even getting upset with him.
(I'm sorry.)
Can you please help her?
(Please help her give up.)
Let's invite her in.
Come on in!
(Who is this woman who's tortured by her friend's one-sided love?)
(Park Yun Hee)
How much does she like him for you to appear on our show?
My friend is 25 years old.
From the moment she wakes up until she goes to bed,
she's always watching his videos.
She fits her schedule into his.
- So... - If Si Kyung is doing something,
my friend takes the day off.
And when she reads hate comments about him, she gets upset.
- I see. - She replies back.
- She replies back to the comment? - She replies back.
You're not her family, so why does it bother you so much?
Because it's starting to inconvenience me.
My friend and I are caddies.
- At a golf course? - Yes.
We meet during the break.
Even though I want to rest,
she keeps telling me to watch his videos.
She keeps bothering me. One time, my teeth hurt.
So I told her I was going to get braces.
Then she'd talk about how Si Kyung had gotten braces before too.
Everything she says is related to him.
Yes, she talks like that.
- Even when we're with others... - He's always on her mind.
and talking about something important,
she'd tell them to watch his videos.
Our friend got mad and told her to stop.
She sends me so many photos of him too. Like that one.
(His photo appears.)
- But... - It's nice.
- He is handsome. - He looks young.
He's handsome.
(He is handsome indeed.)
She'd send me photos of him, asking if he was good-looking.
If I don't reply back, she'll call me.
She'd ask for my reply.
Her friend who was sitting up front...
saw the photo of Si Kyung and was in love.
(Making a fuss)
(The person next to her got hit.)
(Leave us alone.)
Shall we meet your friend?
Let's find out how much she's in love.
- I'm curious. - Hello.
(Is she the one who's in love with him?)
Hello.
Your friend thought this was a worry and came here.
Do you understand her?
No.
I'm the one who likes him.
In order to help you feel better while being interviewed,
can you play "Smiling Angel" for us?
(She hates it.)
It'll rejuvenate her.
Is this it?
(She's given up.)
It'll rejuvenate her.
(She smiles like the title of the song.)
Oh, no.
- It's Si Kyung's song. - Goodness.
Does she listen to this song all the time?
She listens to this song at least three times a day.
Can you tell us what you love so much about him?
- Should I begin? - Yes.
- He's cute. - Okay.
- He's like a teddy bear. - Okay.
He's tall, has broad shoulders, and has a broad back as well.
- He does? - Yes.
And he looks great in suits.
He has a nice voice and sings very well.
(He's just so amazing.)
We've all crossed paths with Si Kyung.
- You're right. - You've worked together.
He's the closest with him.
Don't you run into him at times when you work out?
- Yes. - He told me.
Right. He's always wearing a hat.
It's obvious how his jaw is protruding.
He pretends as if it's not him.
He told me he saw you wearing a tracksuit.
He was curious about what kind of workout you were doing.
But you had this massaging belt around you.
To be exact, I do it for 45 minutes.
She only does that.
Which song is your favorite?
I like "First Date".
It's the song you'll hear if you call me.
The lyrics make me feel like...
he's talking to me.
- That's why. - I'm sure he doesn't feel that way.
- My goodness. - Someone tell her.
- A musician communicates... - Right.
with their fans in that kind of way.
What are the lyrics?
(Don't be shy and tell me that you love me)
(Just like how I feel)
(Is there another way)
(To express how I feel?)
- It could cause a misunderstanding. - It's nice.
Does it feel like he's talking to you?
Yes.
(She's the one who's embarrassed.)
Since when did you start liking him?
When he was on "Witch Hunt",
I just thought that he was okay.
But last year, I went to an event with my friend.
And Si Kyung was there.
After watching him singing, I couldn't stop thinking about it.
So I kept looking for live videos of him.
That's when it started.
If you've heard him live,
- that could happen. - Right.
It hasn't been long, but I guess you still suffered a lot.
I have some days off. I rest 4 to 5 days a month.
My schedule for the rest days...
is in accordance to his schedule.
- It's like that. - Because you're best friends.
- Right. - I see.
One time, we were watching this show live.
He fed her food.
He fed her?
- Goodness. - Yes, he did.
That's incredible.
She bragged about it to people she wasn't even close with.
She told them how awesome it was.
- She must really love him. - I watched "Battle Trip" twice.
We went together once. And two days ago...
- She went there again. - Yes, she took a photo there.
She got all teary-eyed, saying they took a photo together.
So she recently went to watch "Battle Trip"...
- and took a photo with him? - Yes.
I bet all her fans were jealous.
I'm an accomplished fan.
Let's see that photo.
- Let's see. - What is that?
What is that?
(Startled)
You didn't actually take a photo together.
- What is that? - My goodness.
Did she take it in secret?
- You didn't take a photo together. - Don't be silly.
There are more photos.
(They're at a loss for words.)
- Judging by where he's looking, - She's so cute.
I don't think he knew.
There are more.
- This isn't it either. - He's feeding me.
I see.
- He's feeding her. - She took this photo.
This is a good photo.
- Yes. - They took one together.
Isn't that KBS' annex?
You're right.
- That's where we're filming today. - Wait, it's here.
- It is. - Right.
They were filming.
How did you feel?
- I was... - When you took the photo with him.
I felt like I was flying.
Thinking back, it still feels like a dream.
But Si Kyung doesn't have a hectic schedule...
like idols too.
Right.
Are there many places where he can be seen?
Yes, there are.
For example, the bars he goes to.
Bars?
She traveled from Pyeongtaek to Seoul only to have kalguksu.
There's also a bar in Banpo.
- Right. - She went there.
Yes. She went there. The bar closed at 2am or 3am.
- She waited there... - For him?
- until the bar closed. - She waited for him?
Did she meet him?
No. She did that twice.
She told the bar owner her name...
and begged him to tell Si Kyung that she was there.
She wanted the owner to relay her message.
Does Si Kyung know her name?
I'm not sure about him, but his manager sure does.
He always glares at me.
(I'm sorry for being so honest.)
That's his job as a manager.
Si Kyung has many fans.
So why do you have to drag your friend...
with you wherever you go?
But in return, I compensate her.
I buy her alcohol, meals, or drive the entire way.
Since I compensate her, she doesn't have anything to lose.
She pays for everything.
But that's a bigger problem.
She spends 300 to 400 dollars on those days.
That's including the ticket price.
Yes. That's including the ticket price.
- That's how much she spends. - That's more than 100 dollars.
When she goes to his show, she always buys him a gift.
- Right. - When she buys something expensive,
she buys something that's over 100 dollars.
Roughly I spend 1,000 dollars a month,
and there are times when I need more.
Then I spend Mom's credit card.
(She uses her mom's credit card.)
- I... - You use your mom's card.
I know her card number and PIN number.
- My goodness. - My goodness.
I secretly use it while she's at church.
- When she comes home... - Really?
I delete the text message notification.
Then...
- You do it secretly. - Have you...
never been caught?
Does your mom not know?
When she gets the bill,
I don't talk to my mom that day.
Now I know why your mom goes to church.
My goodness.
It must be a worry for her.
I wanted to bring my mom here.
But several days ago, she found out that I've been using her card.
My goodness.
What did you buy this time? What did you spend on?
- I got concert tickets. - You got concert tickets.
What gifts did you get him?
I got him clothes, macaroon cake...
He's studying Chinese right now.
There's a Taiwanese movie called "Secret".
- There are pianists. - I heard...
it's really helpful when you are learning Chinese.
So I made the translated script into a book.
- And I gave it to him as a gift. - That's amazing.
- That's the best. - That's love.
(Clothes, her photos, and the translated script)
(She's proud.)
There's something I am more worried about.
After becoming Si Kyung's fan,
she stopped caring about her career.
In winter, she didn't come to work for a week.
- A week? - Yes.
She watches YouTube videos all night.
She once got up late...
and didn't come to work.
It was my birthday.
But she had to buy a concert ticket.
- On your birthday. - So she didn't come to the party.
I got annoyed, so while drinking,
I criticized Si Kyung.
I said his teeth weren't straight.
His teeth aren't straight?
I thought she was going to say a curse word.
- I thought it was a new curse word. - I thought so too.
Suddenly she got upset.
She said, "Who are you..."
"to criticize his appearance?"
I was sad that...
our 10-year-long friendship might get easily broken.
(It must've made her very sad.)
Her other friends came too.
Who do you sympathize with more? She was worried, so she came here.
Even when we are talking seriously about family matters,
she keeps looking at Si Kyung's photos...
on her phone.
I don't know how much we have to tolerate.
I thought of that.
(She's right.)
By the way, I understand her in a way.
(What?)
Her ex-boyfriend...
really hurt her.
She was very depressed after it happened.
But when she met Si Kyung and became his fan,
she started to overcome the depression.
So as a friend, I understand her in a way.
It's true that the breakup wasn't pretty.
But I am not trying to overcome that pain...
through Si Kyung.
It's nothing like that.
I forgot about him a long time ago.
Is she saying that because...
Si Kyung might get hurt when he sees it?
(Is she giving an excuse because Si Kyung might feel bad?)
"That's not it. Never."
- Is that not it? - That's not it.
Then what if...
Si Kyung gets married or has a girlfriend?
How would you feel?
He can't get married.
He has to get married.
He can't.
- Why can't he? - Why? I'll introduce him to a lady.
You can't do that.
- I'm introducing him to a lady. - You can't do that.
- You are going to go on the date. - It's me.
I've done that many times.
What if he marries you?
In my opinion...
(No. Don't.)
You can never tell what will happen to a person.
If I keep liking him,
I might have a chance.
Isn't Si Kyung's happiness your happiness though?
I want him to be happy with me.
(She trespassed on Si Kyung's heart without permission.)
She's too into him right now.
(Leave me alone.)
Let's make it more extreme.
This is just a hypothesis.
Si Kyung and your friends fell in the water.
Who would you save?
If I can marry him,
I will save him first.
What if you can't marry him? What about now?
I would save him first.
What if you can't marry him? What about now?
I would still save him first.
Really?
- Her friends must be sad. - Let's ask you one more time.
Si Kyung knows how to swim.
Your friend can't swim. She will just sink.
What will you do? 1, 2, 3.
(She has a small hope.)
Si Kyung.
(She is more shocked.)
Si Kyung.
(She's hurt.)
(Her wrong idea of being a fan is making her a bad friend.)
If her passion for him is...
just temporary, it's great.
But if it lasts a long time...
and ruins your day-to-day life, that would be bad.
- Right. - It'd be perfect if it ends here.
Right. It's what Si Kyung, who you like, would want.
It must be also what your friend wants.
What do you want from your friend?
I want her to like him while...
- carrying out her life normally. - Right.
Right.
I want her to stop expecting for a reply...
after sending me videos of him.
- Right. - Right.
I want her to spend half the time...
she gives to Si Kyung with us.
What do you think about your friend's request?
Can you do as she requested?
I want to keep sharing the videos.
I can't be the only one to see how handsome he is.
But she doesn't think he's handsome.
She thinks MINO is more handsome.
She doesn't think he's more handsome.
(She's frustrated.)
I will give you a chance...
to leave Si Kyung a message.
We will send it to him.
- Really. - She's a successful fan.
Hello.
(She's shy.)
I am Oh A Reum from Pyeongtaek, and I am 25 years old.
You must be tired preparing for the concerts...
in Japan and USA.
I want you to stay in good shape.
I don't want you to get sick.
If you don't have anyone to marry, I will marry you.
I will always cheer for you.
- Cheers. - My goodness.
(Oh, my gosh.)
There's someone who's listening to this.
Hello.
- Hello. - Is it really him?
Is it Si Kyung?
Hello.
(Who's the person with this nice voice?)
- Is it Si Kyung? - Who are you?
I am Si Kyung.
(She's surprised.)
I am Si Kyung.
(What?)
(It's a surprise.)
(It's really him.)
You heard her story.
Did you know you had a fan like her?
Yes. Listening to it, I realized that liking me is a problem...
serious enough to take to Hello.
(That's a funny fact.)
(It means you're that amazing.)
Recently, knowing that you are studying Chinese,
she gave you a script book. Do you remember her?
I don't have many ardent fans of her age these days.
So I can guess who she might be.
(Lucky her.)
Say hello to Si Kyung.
- Hello. - Hello.
She criticized you for not having straight teeth.
(You are busted.)
But I can sympathize with her.
If someone keeps forcing me to like the person I'm not interested,
I would be stressed.
Right.
It's sad that that's me though.
- Right. Right. - It doesn't feel great.
Why don't you talk to your fan?
- A Reum from Pyeongtaek. - Talk to her.
Hello.
How can you even neglect your work for me?
He hates it. See?
My job requires me to be in good shape at all times.
So I can't work when I don't sleep.
I get sleepy.
Then you should sleep and go to work.
She stays up all night...
watching your videos.
I am very happy that you like me blindly.
But it would be better if you first straighten your life,
make it stable, and then like me.
- Right. - That was strange to say.
(That's what I'm saying.)
That's for your sake, A Reum.
- "A Reum". It's for A Reum. - It's for A Reum.
A Reum...
is very worried that you might get married.
She's very worried.
What would you say about it?
I was actually planning to get married this year, but for A Reum...
(Is Si Kyung Finally Getting Married?)
But I will give it up for A Reum.
(She's relieved.)
(He's naughty.)
When we meet next time, let's take a photo together.
Promise me.
- Okay. - Let's take a selfie.
My hands shake too much. You can take it.
I will hold the phone.
That's funny.
Thank you for making time to do this on your busy day.
- No problem. Thank you. - Bye.
Thank you.
- How was it? - That was amazing.
She's such a successful fan.
How do you feel?
- She's such a successful fan. - I am nervous.
You have to be the fan Si Kyung wants.
I will be that fan.
(She can't believe it.)
What's the point of her friend talking to her all the time?
Si Kyung's one word did the job.
(The solution was Si Kyung.)
Lastly, what do you want to say to your friend?
On September, you're leaving for Working Holiday.
I want us to make better memories.
- And next year, - She's a good friend.
I promise to join Si Kyung's fan club.
I will do it for you.
So I hope you will spend your time abroad well.
Like Si Kyung said...
I won't force my ideas on you.
I won't send so many videos.
I won't ask you if you have watched them.
Let's be a good friend to each other. I love you.
(I love you, my friend.)
All right. Let's have a vote.
- Do you think it's a worry? - It's a worry.
I think she learned a lot by talking to Sung Si Kyung on the phone.
I don't think it's a worry either.
I think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry.
She is here due to a worry about her friend.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Show us the result.
(The result)
The last digit is nine.
89 votes.
Thank you.
This week, "Are All Korean Men Bad?" won.
We will give the winner the prize money. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
Thank you.